Let's Age It Up!!~

Let’s Age It Up!~

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Mmmmmmmmm……

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I’ve waited over 20 years to witness this gorgeous stage~ my hubby is in~

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He’s always been a little hottie…

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But this salt n’pepper stage…..

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Wooooooo wwwweeeeeeeeee!!

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Heh heh heh~

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Ahhhh~ 

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How I will forever ADORE - The aging process~

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It’s fascinating~

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And I’m so grateful - that both of us~ are choosing not to have our experiences robbed from us. And could a simple filler or box of hair dye actually rob someone from their aging experience? I don’t know……

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Maybe I’m being a little bit of a psycho.

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Or MAYBE…..I’m not!!

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Heh heh heh heh heh!~

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I just think it’s the absolute best - letting ourselves BE~ 

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And seeing what we’re actually meant to look like!~ the whole way through -yah know!~

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The lack of curiosity out there - in this department…..is just so weird to me…..

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Wouldn’t it be more interesting to see what say Madonna would look like right now….If she woulda stayed ‘all naturale' - instead of royally fucking up her face with god only knows what…

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I’d much rather see someone in all off their glory~ 

 

White Hair~All the Lines~ Ear Hair~ Random Whiskers~ Skin Tags~ Pigmentation~ Saggy Boobs~ Saggy Everything!~ hahaha. 

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Ahhhhhh~ I know that this does not sound like glory to most! Haha.

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But it sure does to me!~

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There’s nothing sexier than someone who’s willing to ‘own it/themselves’~ In a way of embracing what we were given~ as in our DNA….

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It would break my heart - if my man was so insecure about going white~ That he felt like he had to colour his hair on what…..the weekly? Cause that’s honestly what he would have to do to cover ‘it/himself’ up~

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I could not imagine….

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 Just like I can’t imagine how he would feel~ if all of a sudden he didn’t recognize me anymore - when I was in a fit of rage~ or in the depths of grief~ with my non-expressionate face. 

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Frick…..I was born with expression lines!!~ 

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It would be so odd!! Wouldn’t it!??

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To go 20 some years of knowing what one another are thinking….just by our expressions~ to boof!~ Freeze face!….

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Yep~ Just not into it.

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And I’m not into shaming anyone who issss- into it!~ 

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As I’ve always been a believer in : ‘Whatever floats your boat’~

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I’m just here to say - on the flip side of ‘the norms’ lies a lot of specialness that many don’t talk about. Or it’s not that people don’t talk about it…but more so I feel like - we don’t celebrate as much as we should~ 

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Seriously~ I truly believe someday we’ll be famous! Everyone who doesn’t jump on the fake bandwagon. They’ll have us modelling for society~ Possibly in glass showcases haha……

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‘Look mommy! A real old person!’ - they’ll say~

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And we’ll smile with the biggest lines of joy~ Our proof of LIVING~ Or like…maybe not our proof - but our souvenir for life! Our lines are our souvenirs~ Same with our white hair~ or our bald heads~ all the things~

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Ahhhhh~ Yah…

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Again - majority of people reading this I’m sure colour their hair~ or get their botox or fillers~ or possibly even boob jobs….if people are still into that~ And it’s all good. I get the argument that if doing something makes someone feel better….than blah blah blah…..

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Yadda yadda!~

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But just know….It’s still fake. And I’m not saying your fake…I’m just saying…..maybe certain parts of you are. Haha. Yep….grab me the shovel!! I’m digging my hole now! Hehehe. 

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It’s true though~ 

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And like I said before……IT’S Alllllllll Good!!~

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Just know if you are sick and tired of keeping up with getting injections~ or covering up your roots~ or plucking every little fucker that’s poking out of your chin~

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JOIN THE PARTY!~ We’re having fun over here!! :)

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And it’s not that we’re completely letting ourselves go!! While k…..I guess we are letting ourselves go….but some of us are choosing to LET OURSELVES GO - NATURALLY~ instead of fakely~

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And I’m telling yah! It’s not so bad! 

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It’s not so bad - to love yourself so much~ that you’re not bothered by the aging process!~ .

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That you’re willing to embrace it - with open arms!

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AND SO MUCH GRATITUDE!! TO THE EXTREME!!! JUST TO HAVE AN OPPORTUNITY……

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TO AGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Ugh~

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It’s just another thing to add to the list - NOT TO FEAR!~

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Call me a weirdo~ But witnessing my man age- turns me on! 

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I’m falling deeper and deeper in love with my man….the deeper his lines get~

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And those lines are not all from smiling!~ Anyone who knows us - knows how true that is!

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We’ve aged quite a bit the last few years - but like….of course we did…..

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We lost our brother (and some other close peeps)~ And frick…..Grief…….Shows up in more ways than one~ and the physical is one of the ways it shows up - that we can see with our very own eyes…..which sometimes can be…ummm…..not so great or should I say……noticeable…

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One of the biggest piss offs/devastations in the last 21 years together - is obviously the loss of our one brother. (My hubby’s blood) And what sucks~ Is they both had the same genes….

He was 4 years older than my man - and he was always able to show us - what was coming down the pipe~ in the looks department for my hubby.

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It’s been about 2 years since I seen him last (well….I did have a VERY vivid dream-hanging out with him the other night…..which was heartbreaking-nice) And yah~ He was on route to being fully white….heck……who knows! He might have been completely white by now if he was still alive……

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Ugh…

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Fuck….

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You know the opposite of aging?…….

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I think it’s dying!!??……

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Why can’t we all just love ourselves and appreciate the bodies we were given…..

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Well this just went completely sideways! Hah!

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Agh frick!

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I thought it would be a great idea to start blogging again on the website. And keep it spa/beauty related~ Chat about my man embracing his white hair and me embracing my lines and saggy tits…..

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Now I’m sitting here with tears pouring down my face! Hahaha.

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What else is new……!!!

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Ahhhhhh lordy~

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I guess this is a nice intro to get back in the swing of things~

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Basically~ Each to their own. Do what you like~ I’m not hear trying to tell anyone what to do! I just want to shed light that there are still people on earth~ ready to embrace the aging process -for everything that it is!~

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Which I believe~ IS BEAUTIFUL AF!~

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And I count my blessings that I’m not alone - and that my man is on the same page~

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Embracing ourselves and one-another~ Inside and Out!~

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Frickinnnnnn ehhhhhhhhhh!~

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Blah blah blah~

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Super curious to see how long it takes for him to go completely white~ If his one brother was still here - we would have a better guess…..

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I’m gonna go with 3 years tops~ Actually lets go with 2!~

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We shall see! :)

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And the best part…..we actually WILL SEE….Because we’re giving ourselves the opportunity to do so~

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Which I think these dayz - is super underrated…~

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Jus sayin-

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Xoxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxo

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Krystal

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